"Please Help Me Save My Relationship"

Have you ever asked anyone to help you save your relationship?

Many broken-hearted people have asked this of their friends and families.

Help really is available. We are here to help you, with serious articles that deal directly with this sad problem. This article will start you off on the right track.


There are times in life when you let go of the thread that binds you and your partner. And there are also times when you want to bridge that gap and restore those binding forces once more. Situations like this are tough, emotionally and even physically and require a lot of mature thinking.

The truth is that the best cure for heartache is to find and fix the root cause of the problem, learn from it and move forward. We must learn from our past mistakes and take precautions to make sure we do not fall into the same destructive patterns and behaviours again. Here are some tips on how to move forward towards a possible reconciliation.

Assess yourself and the relationship. Are you capable of putting yourself back into the relationship and be a positive force? Can you identify what went wrong before? Did you have any destructive or negative tendencies that hampered the relationship? Were there things that you could have done differently? Better? Difficult questions to face, right? However, if you sincerely want to get together again, you have no choice. "Ah" say you, "it wasn't all my fault!" That may be so, but your job is to correct yourself...not apportion blame. Having said that, you also need to evaluate if you think that your partner is ready and willing to make the effort to save your relationship. If the feeling is mutual, you have a good chance of succeeding.

After identifying the problems that strained your relationship, and having done your best to learn and accept your part in them, you can try to talk to your partner about them. Talk calmly, openly and honestly. Express your feelings and concerns but listen to what your partner has to say. Having good listening skills is critical to the success of any reconciliation. You must be willing to listen openly and refrain from making any emotional outbursts. If your partner tells you something you don't want to hear, do your best to listen to and accept your partner's view of what has happened. If you truly desire to restore your relationship, the air must be cleared. Saving a relationship won't happen overnight. Give it time.

Love certainly works in mysterious ways and problems are normal in the course of a relationship. We must always be strong enough to endure the challenges together if we want the relationship to work. Laughter and tears often form the strongest bonds, so have fun and be there for each other. You can never predict the future and only time will tell if the two of you are destined to walk down the aisle together.

I've found for you some solutions.... here's where you start on the road to reunion!